Category: Leadership Development
Ep. 49 Self Regulation – Self Leadership

Ep. 49 Self Regulation – Self Leadership

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Leadership has an inside story that rarely makes the highlight reel. It’s the moment before the response. The pause before the decision. The quiet choice to lead yourself before you attempt to lead anyone else.

In this episode, Carson, Chuck, and Ingrid sit with three case studies that bring self-regulation out of the theoretical and into the real — exploring what it actually costs a leader to stay authentic under pressure, to choose patience when urgency is screaming, and to take seriously the care of the body and soul that sustains everything else.

These aren’t polished success stories. They’re honest looks at the interior life of leadership — and what happens when we neglect it.

What is your leadership costing you on the inside? And is the person you’re becoming worth following?

 

The resource we mention at the close of the episode is Leading Me: Eight Practices for a Christian Leader’s Most Important Assignment by Dr. Steve A Brown.
Ep. 48 Being a Non-Anxious Presence

Ep. 48 Being a Non-Anxious Presence

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Anxiety is contagious. But so is calm. In this episode, we explore what it actually looks like for a leader to be a non-anxious presence — not by pretending everything is fine, but by being genuinely anchored when everything around them isn’t. What if the most important thing you carry into a room isn’t your strategy, but your steadiness? We unpack why anxious leaders create anxious cultures, what it costs an organization when the person at the top is always reacting, and the quiet discipline it takes to lead from a settled soul. This one will make you think honestly about what you’re really transmitting to the people around you.

Ep. 47 Failure of Heart and Nerve

Ep. 47 Failure of Heart and Nerve

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What really stops leaders from leading?

It’s rarely a lack of skill or strategy. More often, it’s one of two things: a failure of the heart — losing emotional connection to your mission and people — or a failure of the nerve — lacking the courage to act when it matters most. In this episode, Carson, Chuck, and Ingrid get honest about both. They explore how heartbreak shows up as disengagement, bitterness, and spiritual exhaustion, and how nerve failure hides behind indecision, avoidance, and compromised convictions. Drawing from real leadership scenarios and biblical examples — from Elijah’s despair to Saul’s fear — they unpack the ripple effects these failures have on teams, organizations, and the leaders themselves. More importantly, they talk about the way back: reconnecting with your calling, building emotional resilience, taking small courageous risks, and surrounding yourself with people who won’t let you stay stuck.

If you’ve ever found yourself pulling back emotionally or hesitating when bold action was needed, this one’s for you.

Ep. 46 Resilience In Leaders

Ep. 46 Resilience In Leaders

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Episode 46 shines a light on resilience as a major transformative force in leadership and life. Hosts Carson Pue, Ingrid Davis, and Chuck Davis redefine resilience—not just as bouncing back, but as bouncing forward, growing stronger through life’s challenges. They share heartfelt stories, practical wisdom, and spiritual insights to inspire listeners to embrace resistance as a gift that builds strength.

With themes of vulnerability, recovery, and continuous growth, this episode encourages everyone to see setbacks as stepping stones and to lead with courage, faith, and perseverance. Resilience isn’t perfection—it’s the power to keep moving forward.
Ep.45: Stewarding Suffering – Part Two

Ep.45: Stewarding Suffering – Part Two

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Ep.44 began a crucial conversation about stewarding suffering—something every mentor and aspiring mentor will encounter on the journey. As we continue through the Christmas season, which beautifully reminds us of redemption emerging from hardship, we’re shifting gears to focus on practical wisdom for navigating pain as someone who guides others. Whether you’re pouring into someone else or looking to be poured into, this episode offers real-life insights and actionable tips to help you support others—and yourself—when suffering hits close to home.

In Part Two, we take the conversation from understanding suffering to actively mentoring through it. What does it look like to walk alongside someone—whether as a mentor, a friend, or a fellow traveller—when pain is raw, and answers seem distant? How can you be transparent about your own struggles without losing credibility or hope? This episode will give you practical insights, encouragement, and honest questions to help you guide others while caring for your own soul.

This episode is about discovering purpose in pain—both for yourself and those you’re walking alongside. We’ll explore how asking, “What might God be teaching me (or my mentee) in this?” can move us beyond just surviving to experiencing real redemption. Suffering doesn’t define you, nor does it define those you mentor. Still, your response—and how you help others respond—can become a legacy, offering a lighted path for anyone finding themselves in a dark valley.

We’ll share practical steps for mentors and those seeking mentorship, including insights you can apply right away:

  • Sharing your struggles with appropriate transparency to build connection.
  • Focusing on what God may be teaching you, revealing purpose within the pain.
  • Using your experience to serve and guide others with grace and empathy.

Join us as we wrap up this meaningful dialogue, inviting mentors and those seeking mentorship to gather wisdom for both your own journey and those you’re guiding. Together, we’ll find practical ways God might use our hardest seasons to grow our empathy, strengthen our faith, and help us become wiser guides for others.

Listen now to discover practical ways to mentor and be mentored through seasons of suffering. Whether you’re guiding someone through hardship or seeking wisdom for your own journey, this episode is packed with insights and tips you can use right away. Share this two-part series with a fellow mentor or mentee who could use some encouragement and hope.

Ep. 42 Moving Beyond The Enneagram

Ep. 42 Moving Beyond The Enneagram

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In this thought-provoking episode of the Mentored Podcast, Carson Pue, Chuck, and Ingrid Davis explore the concept of moving beyond singular assessment tools, such as the Enneagram, Birkman, DISC, or MBTI. While these instruments can provide valuable insights into personality, behaviour, and preferences, they are not the ultimate answer to understanding or mentoring others.

As mentors, it’s crucial to avoid becoming overly reliant on any one framework. Together, we discuss the importance of adopting a more holistic and adaptable approach to mentorship. By integrating multiple perspectives and tools, mentors can better address the unique needs, goals, and growth opportunities of those they guide.

Whether you’re a seasoned mentor or just starting your journey, this episode will challenge you to expand your toolkit, think critically about assessment instruments, and focus on the bigger picture of personal and professional development.

So come and join us, as the next 30 minutes can really help you to be a better mentor and entertain you as you listen.
Ep. 39 Living With Your Feelings

Ep. 39 Living With Your Feelings

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Ever notice how the most successful leaders aren’t necessarily the smartest ones in the room? They’re often the ones who’ve mastered something we rarely talk about in leadership circles—their emotions.

In this raw and insightful episode, Carson Pue, Chuck, and Ingrid Davis tackle the uncomfortable truth about emotional intelligence in leadership. Chuck opens up about his Midwestern upbringing, where feelings were seen as “unpredictable” and “no good”—a mindset that nearly sabotaged his marriage and ministry. You’ll hear Carson’s vulnerable story about his unexpected anxiety attacks and how his doctor’s refusal to prescribe medication led to a breakthrough therapy session involving… well, let’s just say dinosaur imagery played a role. Ingrid shares her research on “holistic holiness” and why ignoring our inner world stunts our spiritual growth.

The conversation explores practical strategies like the WAIT acronym (Why Am I Talking?), the difference between being an emotional thermometer versus thermostat, and why Jesus’ tears matter more than you might think. They discuss the unique challenges female leaders face with emotions and how to create healthier team cultures.

This isn’t about becoming more touchy-feely—it’s about becoming more effective. Because here’s the thing: if you can’t understand what’s happening inside you, how can you truly lead others?

Ready to explore the intersection of faith, feelings, and leadership? Listen now at mentoredpodcast.net | Subscribe on your favourite podcast platform | Share with a fellow leader who needs to hear this.

What’s one emotion you’ve been avoiding as a leader?

Ep. 38 Encouraging Younger Leaders

Ep. 38 Encouraging Younger Leaders

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In this episode, Carson, Ingrid and Chuck tackle the essential—and often overlooked—topic of coming alongside emerging leaders. Drawing from years of mentoring experience, these three friends share real stories and practical wisdom on how seasoned leaders can encourage, equip, and empower the next generation.

From the importance of simply noticing young potential to navigating the tension between guiding and controlling, this episode offers a grounded, faith-informed approach to mentorship. Whether you’re a church elder, executive, or coffee shop entrepreneur, you’ll find honest insights on how to invest meaningfully in future leaders, without making it about you.

If you’ve ever wondered how to leave a legacy beyond your title, start here.

Ep. 37 Relating to Normal People

Ep. 37 Relating to Normal People

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Hosts: Carson Pue, Chuck Davis, Ingrid Davis

In this episode of the Mentored Podcast, Carson, Chuck, and Ingrid dive into the importance of Christian leaders connecting with people outside the Christian subculture — whom they affectionately call “normal people.” They share personal stories, practical advice, and thought-provoking insights on how to build authentic relationships rooted in curiosity, kindness, and shared humanity.

Highlights from the episode:

  • Carson Pue reflects on the challenges pastors face in staying connected with everyday people and shares a story about mobilizing volunteers to build a playground for a local school.
  • Chuck Davis emphasizes the power of curiosity, recounting how simply asking someone to “tell me your story” can open doors to meaningful connections.
  • Ingrid Davis discusses the importance of being present and genuinely interested in others, sharing a touching story about an Uber driver who found hope through their kindness.
  • Together, they explore how relationships act as bridges, built on common interests and shared needs, and how being 10% more friendly can make a world of difference.

This episode is packed with wisdom, humor, and practical tips for anyone looking to grow as a mentor or leader. Tune in to be inspired, encouraged, and equipped to engage with others in a deeper, more meaningful way.

Ep. 34 Hurt By Others (Part Two)

Ep. 34 Hurt By Others (Part Two)

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What happens when someone wounds you deeply? Do you carry it, allowing bitterness to take hold, or do you begin the hard work of healing? In this second part of our conversation on being hurt by others, Drs. Carson Pue, Chuck, and Ingrid Davis, proven mentors in leadership and life, tackle these tough questions with wisdom, warmth, and candour.

This episode invites you to reflect on themes of emotional resilience, forgiveness, and personal growth. The hosts explore what it truly means to forgive—not to excuse the offence, but to free yourself. How can you create boundaries that protect your heart while remaining open to reconciliation? What steps can you take to process pain in a healthy, God-honoring way?

Brimming with practical advice, poignant stories, and a touch of humour, this conversation will inspire you to confront hurts with courage and grace. You’ll come away with a deeper understanding of how restoration can coexist with truth and how growth often arises from the most difficult experiences.

If you’ve faced betrayal, felt the sting of harsh words, or struggled with letting go, this episode offers encouragement and actionable steps toward healing. Join Carson, Chuck, and Ingrid for an honest, heart-level discussion that reminds us of the power of forgiveness and the possibility of renewal.

Listen now and find hope in your healing process. To hear the whole conversation, be sure to listen to Episode 33.

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