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Ep. 54 Are You Actually Aligned?

Ep. 54 Are You Actually Aligned?

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Alignment is one of those words leaders use a lot.

I’m just not sure we examine it enough though.

In this episode, Ingrid, Chuck, and I sit with a question that’s easier to avoid than to answer honestly: Are my actions today actually reflecting what I believe? We walk through the case study of Sarah, a passionate leader whose team is growing frustrated and whose decisions have quietly drifted from her own values. Nobody warned her it was happening. It rarely announces itself.

Misalignment doesn’t usually arrive as a crisis. It creeps in dressed as pragmatism. Pressure to produce. The small compromise that seems reasonable in the moment. By the time you notice the gap between who you say you are and how you’re actually leading, it’s already cost you something.

Together we draw on Proverbs 3:5-6, Jonah’s very expensive detour, and Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane to ask what it actually looks like to lead from genuine coherence rather than well-managed appearances. We also get practical: journaling prompts, a simple realignment framework, and the kind of questions a good mentor will ask you that you’re probably not asking yourself.

Here’s what I know: zeal is not the same as alignment. You can move fast in the wrong direction with a full heart and clean hands.
So here’s my question for you. When did you last stop long enough to actually assess?
Ep 53b Entropy and Leadership

Ep 53b Entropy and Leadership

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Everything falls apart. That’s not cynicism. That’s physics.

Entropy is the tendency of any system, left unattended, to move toward disorder. Your organisation knows this. So does your marriage. So does your soul.

It doesn’t happen all at once. Gradually. Quietly. A leader drifts from their calling. A team loses its sense of purpose. A spiritual life that once felt alive starts running on memory. That’s entropy. And it doesn’t announce itself.

In this episode, Carson, Ingrid, and Chuck get honest about what entropy looks like in leadership, spiritually and practically. Carson shares a season of his own spiritual autopilot and what it took to find his way back. The conversation moves from diagnosis to direction, because naming the drift is only the first step.

The good news? Entropy may be inevitable. Stagnation isn’t.

What would it mean to lead from wholeness instead of depletion? And who around you is paying close enough attention to tell you the truth?
Ep. 53a Welcome to Season Three

Ep. 53a Welcome to Season Three

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Some podcasts give you content. This one gives you a conversation.

That was always the idea. Martin Sanders and Carson Pue started it at a kitchen table, really. The mentoring that used to happen on long walks or over a shared meal had no place to live in the noise of modern leadership. So they made one.

Martin is gone now. But the conversation continues.

Chuck and Ingrid Davis stepped in at Carson’s invitation — not to fill a gap, but because Martin had mentored them too. It felt right. It still does.

Season Two surprised them. The deeper they went, the more people leaned in. Stewarding suffering. Listening. Vulnerability. Failure as formation. These weren’t polished presentations. They were honest conversations between three people who have lived long enough in leadership to know what it actually costs.

And listeners noticed. A pastor’s wife who sent the episode on communicating with adult children to her neighbour. A leader who heard the word “stewarding” before “suffering” for the first time and couldn’t stop thinking about it.

That’s what this is for.

Season Three continues where Season Two left off. Same table. Same honesty. No masks. No performance. Just Carson, Chuck, and Ingrid thinking out loud about the things leaders rarely say in public but think about all the time.

If you’re a leader who has it all together, there are other podcasts for you.

If you’re a leader willing to admit you don’t — welcome. You’re in good company.

Season Three of The Mentored Podcast is live now. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, or find every episode right here at mentoredpodcast.net.

Ep. 52: The Power of Story (Season 2 Finale)

Ep. 52: The Power of Story (Season 2 Finale)

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Everyone has a story. The real question is whether you know how to read yours.

In this Season 2 finale, Carson, Chuck, and Ingrid dig into one of the most underused tools in a mentor’s hands — story. Not storytelling as a presentation skill, but story as the lens through which we understand our own lives, and help others understand theirs.

Dan Allender puts it plainly: most people miss the deeper meaning of their own life because they don’t know how to read it. And as John McCauley adds, we’re not actually designed to read our stories accurately on our own. That’s where a mentor comes in.

The conversation covers a lot of ground: the neuroscience behind why stories stick (Dr. Paul Zak’s work on oxytocin is worth knowing about), the danger of fixed narratives — those internal scripts that quietly limit us — and the extraordinary thing that happens when a mentor believes a better story about you before you can believe it yourself. They call it “borrowed belief.” It’s one of the most honest descriptions of what good mentoring actually does.

Ingrid shares how she draws people’s stories out in practice. Carson brings the biblical frame — Jesus was, after all, history’s most effective storyteller. And the whole conversation ends with a practical challenge you can act on this week.

To our 13,000-plus listeners: Season 2 has been something. Thank you for being part of it. Season 3 is coming.

 

 

Ep. 50 Spiritual Authority vs. Institutional Power

Ep. 50 Spiritual Authority vs. Institutional Power

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There’s a kind of leader who commands a room without raising their voice. And there’s another kind who needs a title to be taken seriously. They are not the same.

In this milestone 50th episode, Carson, Chuck, and Ingrid sit down with a question that cuts to the heart of every leader’s journey: Where does your authority actually come from?

Institutional power is given. Spiritual authority is grown — slowly, often painfully, through faithfulness in hidden places. But in a world that rewards platforms, metrics, and organizational rank, it’s easy to confuse the two. And that confusion has consequences — for your team, your family, and your own soul.

This conversation doesn’t offer easy answers. It asks better questions. What does it look like to lead from a place of genuine calling rather than positional leverage? What happens when your title disappears — do you still have something worth following? And how do you build the kind of authority that outlasts any role you’ll ever hold?

Whether you lead a congregation, a company, or a family — this episode is worth your time.

Ep. 47 Failure of Heart and Nerve

Ep. 47 Failure of Heart and Nerve

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What really stops leaders from leading?

It’s rarely a lack of skill or strategy. More often, it’s one of two things: a failure of the heart — losing emotional connection to your mission and people — or a failure of the nerve — lacking the courage to act when it matters most. In this episode, Carson, Chuck, and Ingrid get honest about both. They explore how heartbreak shows up as disengagement, bitterness, and spiritual exhaustion, and how nerve failure hides behind indecision, avoidance, and compromised convictions. Drawing from real leadership scenarios and biblical examples — from Elijah’s despair to Saul’s fear — they unpack the ripple effects these failures have on teams, organizations, and the leaders themselves. More importantly, they talk about the way back: reconnecting with your calling, building emotional resilience, taking small courageous risks, and surrounding yourself with people who won’t let you stay stuck.

If you’ve ever found yourself pulling back emotionally or hesitating when bold action was needed, this one’s for you.

Ep. 46 Resilience In Leaders

Ep. 46 Resilience In Leaders

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Episode 46 shines a light on resilience as a major transformative force in leadership and life. Hosts Carson Pue, Ingrid Davis, and Chuck Davis redefine resilience—not just as bouncing back, but as bouncing forward, growing stronger through life’s challenges. They share heartfelt stories, practical wisdom, and spiritual insights to inspire listeners to embrace resistance as a gift that builds strength.

With themes of vulnerability, recovery, and continuous growth, this episode encourages everyone to see setbacks as stepping stones and to lead with courage, faith, and perseverance. Resilience isn’t perfection—it’s the power to keep moving forward.
Ep.45: Stewarding Suffering – Part Two

Ep.45: Stewarding Suffering – Part Two

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Ep.44 began a crucial conversation about stewarding suffering—something every mentor and aspiring mentor will encounter on the journey. As we continue through the Christmas season, which beautifully reminds us of redemption emerging from hardship, we’re shifting gears to focus on practical wisdom for navigating pain as someone who guides others. Whether you’re pouring into someone else or looking to be poured into, this episode offers real-life insights and actionable tips to help you support others—and yourself—when suffering hits close to home.

In Part Two, we take the conversation from understanding suffering to actively mentoring through it. What does it look like to walk alongside someone—whether as a mentor, a friend, or a fellow traveller—when pain is raw, and answers seem distant? How can you be transparent about your own struggles without losing credibility or hope? This episode will give you practical insights, encouragement, and honest questions to help you guide others while caring for your own soul.

This episode is about discovering purpose in pain—both for yourself and those you’re walking alongside. We’ll explore how asking, “What might God be teaching me (or my mentee) in this?” can move us beyond just surviving to experiencing real redemption. Suffering doesn’t define you, nor does it define those you mentor. Still, your response—and how you help others respond—can become a legacy, offering a lighted path for anyone finding themselves in a dark valley.

We’ll share practical steps for mentors and those seeking mentorship, including insights you can apply right away:

  • Sharing your struggles with appropriate transparency to build connection.
  • Focusing on what God may be teaching you, revealing purpose within the pain.
  • Using your experience to serve and guide others with grace and empathy.

Join us as we wrap up this meaningful dialogue, inviting mentors and those seeking mentorship to gather wisdom for both your own journey and those you’re guiding. Together, we’ll find practical ways God might use our hardest seasons to grow our empathy, strengthen our faith, and help us become wiser guides for others.

Listen now to discover practical ways to mentor and be mentored through seasons of suffering. Whether you’re guiding someone through hardship or seeking wisdom for your own journey, this episode is packed with insights and tips you can use right away. Share this two-part series with a fellow mentor or mentee who could use some encouragement and hope.
Ep. 44 Stewarding Suffering (Part One)

Ep. 44 Stewarding Suffering (Part One)

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We are originally posting this episode as we approach the Christmas season, a time often filled with joy and celebration, it’s also a time to reflect on the deeper story of hope born from humble and challenging circumstances. This episode is part one of our two-part series. We’re going to continue to go deeper than we did in Episode 43 on disappointment to discuss a topic that touches every leader: suffering.

Suffering is a universal human experience, yet it often feels isolating, especially when you’re responsible for leading others. How do you respond when faced with personal loss, betrayal, or a professional crisis? Do you see it merely as something to endure, or could it be a sacred opportunity to trust God on a more profound level?

In this episode, we explore how to steward seasons of suffering. We’ll look at biblical examples to understand that hardship is not a sign of failure or abandonment. Instead, it can be a path to perseverance, character, and hope. This time of year reminds us that even in the darkest moments, a great plan is unfolding. Just as the world waited for a Saviour, we too can find purpose in our waiting and pain.

We’ll discuss some practical ways to navigate these difficult seasons, such as:

  • Turning to God as your first response, not a last resort.
  • Building a strong support system and embracing vulnerability.
  • Practicing daily surrender to find peace amidst the turmoil.
  • Leading with transparency to foster connection and strength within your team.

Your suffering doesn’t define you, but how you respond to it can shape your leadership legacy. Join us for a heartfelt conversation about transforming pain into purpose and leading with a faith that shines brighter in the dark.

Listen now to discover how God can write a beautiful story through your most challenging chapters. Be sure to share this episode with another leader who might need this encouragement today.

Ep. 43 Dealing with Disappointment

Ep. 43 Dealing with Disappointment

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In Episode 43 of the Mentored Podcast, hosts Carson Pue, Chuck, and Ingrid Davis address a reality that every leader eventually faces: the challenge of dealing with disappointment. Whether it stems from a missed opportunity, a personnel change, or a vision that didn’t materialize as planned, disappointment can be disorienting. This episode offers a compassionate and practical roadmap for navigating these difficult emotions with wisdom.

Rather than simply “pushing through” or burying the pain, the hosts encourage leaders to steward their experiences for growth. Key takeaways from this conversation include:

  • Managing Emotions: Why validating your grief is essential for emotional health and avoiding bitterness.
  • Reframing Setbacks: How to shift your perspective to see disappointment not as a failure, but as a step toward reorientation.
  • Applying Faith: Trusting in God’s ability to “recycle” our struggles into redemptive purposes and long-term fruitfulness.

If you are navigating a season of unmet expectations, we invite you to reflect on how these moments might be shaping your character. Tune in to the full episode for encouraging insights on building emotional resilience and turning lament into action.

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